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Edifying Words
As
Ecclesiastes 3:1 states, “There is an appointed time for everything” (ESV, Holy
Bible). Ecclesiastes is applicable to every facet of our lives, especially within
the counseling setting. In counseling, there are various techniques that are
utilized. Specific techniques may be applied at different times to cater to
each client’s specific needs. At particular points within counseling it is important
for the counselor to only use techniques when appropriate. Although a technique
has potential to bring fourth growth and life-giving experiences, if the client
is not in a position to receive such treatment the therapeutic relationship may
end in turmoil (Thomas & Sosin, 2011). Throughout my time reading about feedback so
much has come to mind. Thomas & Sosin (2011) advise that even the most “well-meaning
and sound feedback can be conceived as negative” (p. 187). The scriptures
provided within the text genuinely hit home. Our words and actions ultimately
lead towards spiritual life or death. I realize this may sound drastic, but it
is ultimately true. The way in which we conduct ourselves and treat others is a
direct reflection of our worldview—whether it be a Biblical worldview or an
unmatched worldview consistent with Scripture. There is not an in between or
neutral impact we make as human beings. We are either living Spirit filled
lives or lives flesh filled lives. God makes it very clear that those who are
in leadership roles need to be very aware of the high standards they are held
to. The leadership role of a counselor is not exempt. In fact, we are called to
be the best representation of Jesus that we are able to be, with the help of
the Holy Spirit. Now, in relation to feedback within counseling sessions, we
need to be highly aware that our non-verbal and verbal responses to clients
will either lead them closer to a redemptive and healing relationship with the
Lord or farther away from that. Jesus presented incredible examples of
life-giving feedback during his time here on earth. The cautions presented by
Thomas & Sosin (2011) must be taken to heart, or else we will be damaging
and confusing our clients rather than edifying them.
Reference
Thomas, J. C. & Sosin, L. (2011). Therapeutic expedition: Equipping the Christian counselor for the journey. Nashville, TN: B & H Publishing Group.
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