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The role of the counselor as a guide to desired change stood
out as I read through the chapters. I reflect on the counselor’s role in
helping the client change. The counselor walks with the client on this journey. The counselor helps the client to realize meaning and purpose for
seeking help. The client may be dissatisfied with the current situation and may
need empowerment to go to where they want to go with their life. The counselor helps
the client envision that change is indeed possible. And as a guide, the
counselor provides motivation. Consideration of the uniqueness of the individual
is vital since not all clients will progress in the same pace. The counselor
considers the readiness and willingness for the client to move from dissatisfaction
to satisfaction. It is important to know whether the client is ready to break
from their routine. An important aspect discussed by Thomas and Sosin (2011) is
that sometimes clients may be crippled by their
own problems. Instead of coercing change, it is important for the
counselor to increase the awareness for the need for change and at the same
time be present with the client and listen. Listening and exploring of the
benefits of change can help the client realize the need for change. Throughout
this process the counselor helps the client untangle from the false beliefs, thoughts
or behaviors and helps the client realize the benefits of
being free from bondage. Thomas and Sosin , (2011) indicate that “nothing is more empowering than realizing you
have the ability to make changes”.
The counselor therefore
plays the supportive role throughout the journey and
helps the client to realize they have the ability to change. The counselor
helps the client to follow the map towards change. It is important for the
client to visualize the light at the end of the tunnel to create a sense of hope.
Reference
Thomas, J.
&Sosin, L. (2011). Therapeutic expedition: Equipping the Christian
counselor for the journey.
Ruth, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I appreciated both the content of your post as well as your title. There is definitely "freedom" in the idea that we are facilitators, guides, motivators and a resource; we are not expected to be perfect with a complete knowledge of everything psychological. When I am freed from the self-expectation of perfection, I am able to focus on what is best for the client which is better for everyone.
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